The Affair (Amid Purity Culture) They Don’t Regret: Julia and Jeremiah

<p dir="ltr">Both Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at <a href="https://www.sexvangelicals.com/">https://www.sexvangelicals.com</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Check out the latest specials at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>! </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14">https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

01:00:46

Glimmer to Spark to Bonfire: Chris Maxwell Rose

<p dir="ltr">Somatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hear Charlotte Mia Rose’s story in the <a href="https://augustmclaughlin.com/charlotte/">previous episode</a>. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of <a href="http://pleasuremechanics.com">pleasuremechanics.com</a>. Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, <a href="https://pleasuremechanics.teachable.com/">here</a>!</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Access your FREE Listening to Your Pleasure worksheet:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen">https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen </a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Check out Kinktober specials at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>! </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14">https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:36:30

Rediscovering Her Eroticism: Charlotte Mia Rose

<p dir="ltr">Charlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte’s world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the process, and practical ways to benefit from pleasure when you’re feeling spent. Stay tuned for Chris’s story in the next episode.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Charlotte is a somatic sex educator and co-founder of <a href="https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">pleasuremechanics.com</a>. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Access your FREE Listening to Your Pleasure worksheet:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen">https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen </a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Check out Kinktober specials at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>! </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14">https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:31:19

Dark Spaces, Sexploration and Self-Worth: Ginelle and Nancy Jo

<p dir="ltr">Ginelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was “very sexualized” in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle’s with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo’s with online dating. And they both have a lot to say about self-acceptance, cultivating healthy relationships and pleasure - in and outside of the bedroom.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Nancy Jo’s story was originally released in a 2021 episode.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">This episode touches on sensitive topics, such as abuse and eating disorders. Please take care of yourself while listening. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Explore the <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/special-collections/awaken-your-senses"> Awaken Your Senses</a> collection at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>! Free shipping on orders through September.</p> <p dir="ltr">Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14">https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>

00:43:37

Turning Herself On, for Real: Rena Martine

<p dir="ltr">When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">In addition to Rena’s story, you’ll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that’s especially helpful for women, parents, long-term partners and anyone with a busy lifestyle. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">This episode also touches on:</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">What can happen when you have early exposure to sex, without context or education</p> <p dir="ltr">The impact of 9/11 on Rena and her relationship</p> <p dir="ltr">A threesome gone wonky</p> <p dir="ltr">Rena’s first experience at a sexy Skirt Club party</p> <p dir="ltr">Desires styles (and why you aren’t “broken” if you aren’t turned on in a snap)</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Follow Rena on Instagram and check out her book: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_">@_rena.martine_</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Explore the <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/special-collections/awaken-your-senses"> Awaken Your Senses</a> collection at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>! Free shipping on orders through September.</p> <p dir="ltr">Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14">https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:32:36

From Sexual “Purity” to Freedom and Self-Love: Mattie Jo and Amber

<p dir="ltr">Mattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">This episode touches on:</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Childhood trauma</p> <p dir="ltr">Masturbation and self-pleasure</p> <p dir="ltr">Ways purity culture harms women, men and LGBTQIA+ folks</p> <p dir="ltr">A common female sexuality stereotype</p> <p dir="ltr">Spicy exploration</p> <p dir="ltr">Benefits of trauma therapy and affirming faith communities in dark times</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Learn more from this episode’s storytellers:</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://mattiejocowsert.com/godsexandrichpeople">mattiejocowsert.com/godsexandrichpeople</a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.ambercantornawylde.com">https://www.ambercantornawylde.com</a></p> </p> <p dir="ltr">Explore the latest specials at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>!</p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:45:32

Masculine/Feminine Stereotypes and Being True to Yourself: Suzannah Weiss

<p dir="ltr">Suzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off to her. She also shares her top related advice for leading a fulfilling life, in and outside of the bedroom.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Learn more about writer, feminist, and resident sexologist for <a href="https://www.biird.co/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Biird</a> Suzannah Weiss at <a href="http://suzannahweiss.com">suzannahweiss.com</a>. Find her new book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Subjectified-Becoming-Subject-Suzannah-Weiss/dp/150956019X"> Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject</a>, most anywhere books are sold.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Explore AnalAugust <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/featured-brands/the-b-vibe-suite" rel="noopener" target="_blank">specials</a> at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>!</p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:24:12

“OMG” Body Stories: Renee, Nora and Niba – replay

<p dir="ltr">Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and <a href="https://www.notesbyniba.org/">Niba</a> of <a href="https://www.feministbookclub.com/">The Feminist Book Club</a> community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories!</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Explore the latest specials at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>!</p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:24:56

When Sex Got Super Woo-Woo: Alicia and Magda

<p dir="ltr">When Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they’d have a great time. But she didn’t expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she’d later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their true stories, plus related advice.</p> <p dir="ltr">More from Alicia Davon: 415.308.9580 <a href="https://davonmethod.com/consult/">Love Life Consultation</a><a href="https://youtu.be/XFpdOZ-5xbI?feature=shared">What People are Saying- Mastery of Relationship</a></p> <p dir="ltr">More from Magda Kay: <a href="https://magdakay.com/">https://magdakay.com</a><a href="https://youtube.com/@MagdaKay?si=mcwj7KQDUOV9eJUm">https://youtube.com/@MagdaKay </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MagdaKayOfficial">https://www.facebook.com/MagdaKayOfficial</a></p> <p dir="ltr">Explore the latest specials at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>!</p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:25:57

Exploring Sex and Living in a Body: Dr. Carol Queen

<p dir="ltr">Carol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity.</p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Get <em>The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone</em> at <a href="http://goodvibes.com">goodvibes.com</a>. Read or listen to <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Real-Live-Nude-Girl-Sex-Positive/dp/157344166X"> Real, <em>Live, Nude Girl</em></a> via Amazon or Audible. And visit the <a href="https://www.goodvibes.com/content/c/antique-vibrators">Antique Vibrator Museum</a> in San Francisco. </p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Explore the <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/special-collections/abundantly-queer"> Pride Collection</a> at <a href="https://thepleasurechest.com/">thepleasurechest.com</a>!</p> <p dir="ltr">IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/">@GirlBonerMedia</a>  TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@girlbonerradio">@GirlBonerRadio</a>  FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner">@MyGirlBoner </a></p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="http://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner">augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner</a>    <a href="https://www.patreon.com/girlboner">patreon.com/girlboner</a></p>  </p> <p dir="ltr">Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin</p>  </p>

00:43:29