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Dear Nelly
Dear Nelly

Dear Nelly

In this hilarious and heartfelt podcast, award-winning comedian Nelly Thomas and guest co-hosts <strong>offer sex, relationship and dating advice</strong> from the other side of 40. </p><br>Like many people, Nelly got “Covid Divorced” after a long relationship and not only was it <strong><u>not</u> </strong>a disaster, it was best for everyone involved. Turning 40 is something faced with dread by some but Nelly has a different take - this is when you really come into your own. Nelly and her guest co-hosts will help you navigate the highs and lows of break-ups, dating, relationships, sex and everything else in-between. Guest co-hosts so far include Cal Wilson, Harley Breen, Mel Buttle, Scott Brennan and Geraldine Hickey.</p><br>For info, episodes and to send Nelly a message go to the <strong><em>Dear Nelly</em></strong> website <a href="https://www.dearnellypodcast.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><br><strong><em>"Thought provoking and brilliant." Sammy J, Comedian</em></strong></p><strong><em>"An hilarious combination of humour, wisdom and compassion." Listener</em></strong></p><strong><em>"I feel seen." Listener</em></strong></p> If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly">https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly</a>.</p> <br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

Available Episodes 10

DEAR NELLY FAVOURITE SCOTT BRENNAN IS BACK TO HELP NELLY FIGURE SH*T OUT


One of our favouite homosexuals is back to help Nelly answer some straight lady questions from listeners. Why? Because, why not. Scott has been sitting in the sh*t and we get into that. We take questions on hooking up with a work friend, sex toy etiquette and, how to enjoy big events on your won. We also take an inspiring call about dating in a regional area, later in life. A beautiful episode with a dear friend of both Nelly and the Dear Nelly Community. You'll love this one - a ripper start to 2025.


 

DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au


Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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The Fabulous Adam Richard: how do we set up an open relationship?

In addition to your guaranteed monthly episodes, Nelly will now drop in solo and/or with a guest to talk sh*t and take listener letters when she has time. We start today with a very long episode with Nelly's old mate The Fabulous Adam Richard. Adam and his long-term partner have just opened up their relationship and Adam is loving some aspects and finding others challenging. They GET INTO IT. Nelly and Adam also take some wonderful listener letters.

It's a long one - listen in two parts or go on a really long walk.


DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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This month Nelly is solo - not by her own choice, she had a fresh episode ready to go, but sadly due to technical issues here we are! An overall update on what's been going on with Nelly over the last little while - a real honest and raw update.

 

DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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NOVEMBER 2024 EPISODE: DATING STORIES, MOLLS!

This month Nelly has had a rough time and so she's decided to embrace the joy, mess and debauchery of life by making an entire episode out of dating stories. You'll hear the good, the bad and the ugly and if you don't cry/laugh multiple times, go get your pulse checked. An absolutely glorious episode.

 

DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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SERENA WALKER: COUNSELLING PSYCHOLOGIST IS BACK TO GET INTO IT

Serena Walker is back to talk about all the things! We get into humour, hope and intentionality and how important they are to connection. We talk about a 30-day texting challenge, a 2-week sex challenge and how to honour grief and change. We get into Tina the Musical and a couple of memes. We take a beautiful listener call about recovering from an abusive relationship, finding a new romance and how to deal with that ending. We end on Serena's BIG MISTAKE.


SERENA'S WEBSITE: HERE


DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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Rusty Berther: Starting Again at 50 as a Straight Man in the Wild!

Rusty Bertha's marriage of 27 years ended when he was 49 and he was shitting in the shit. Flash forward 7 years and he is happily remarried after doing a shitload of therapy and then meeting a wonderful woman on the apps. YES, IT DOES HAPPEN. Nelly and Rusty talk about all of that plus what sort of flirt he is and do's and don'ts of dating. They take a great listener call about boundaries and Rusty's BIG MISTAKE in dating and relationships.


RUSTY BERTHA: HERE and HERE


DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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TOXIC PEOPLE THRIVE IN SILENCE

In this ep, Nelly drops in to ponder how toxic people rely on silence and how liberating it is when you find your voice. She also muses on how egocentric we are when it comes to divorce, dating and all the things. She invites you to WWRPD - what would Ru Paul do - and ask yourself how important your current situation is in the Grander Scheme of Things. So you got divorced - sure it's huge, it's also nothing in the Big Picture view of human history and even, of your life. You can put the shame, worry and fear down. She also take wonderful call from a woman who was sitting right in the shit and is out the other side with a full bush and a new lease on her (sex)life. Bravo!


  • Sherapy Sessions Podcast HERE
  • Character Outs Podcast HERE
  • The Ru Paul interview Nelly references HERE


NELLY'S NEW EVENT: OVER THE RAINBOW DATING FOR LGBTIQA+ VICTORIANS HERE


 

DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 


If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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Fifty, Fabulous and Facing the F'n Sh*t!

Nelly turned 50 last week and she drops in to take some birthday calls and talk about the bug 5-0 milestone. Nelly gets into "un-fu*king" yourself and how aging can be an opportunity to shed all the negative crap that has held us back and, how joy is there to be taken. She also shares what she's reading, listening to and watching.

 

DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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Rebecca De Unamuno: I don't know if you're interested until my pants are around my ankles!

Bec and I talk about being long-term-single, how to flirt (or not) and why rending to your own garden is the most important thing. We take a great listener call from someone who is NOT embracing being single and a letter about a pash n' dash. A great ep with a golden girl of comedy.


 

DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



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AUGUST BONUS: NELLY'S ADVICE STINKS!

Nelly drops in take a listener call telling her she WAS WRONG (she sort of was?), to rant about Fake on Paramount Plus and some other stuff. You'll really love this episode if you've dated a fantasist/pathological liar/ predator.


  • Info on FAKE here
  • Info on The Dating Gamble (INSIGHT) here


DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE

 

SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

 

SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

 

1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.