Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal

Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast!</p><br /><br /></p>Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal.</p>Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more.</p><br /><br /></p>Themes: Long Term Relationships, Infidelity, Madonna-Whore Complex</p><br />Enjoyy!</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p>Listen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod</p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

01:19:48

Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy.</p>Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "Sauce,", unpack the complexities of casual yet ever-present sexual encounters and so much more!</p><br />Enjoyy</p><br />Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Casual Sex</p>Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p>Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p>Listen to a new episode here: https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod</p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

01:06:01

I Identify As A Form ft. Gozie

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow!</p>On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the social challenges of non-conformity head-on and so much more!</p>Enjoy!</p><br />Themes: Gender Identity, Labels, Queer Existence </p>Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p>Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p>Listen to a new episode here: <a href="https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod</a></p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

01:00:50

Trigger Warning ft. Aanu

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth, the importance of safe and affirming spaces for all types of sexualities and much more.</p><br />Enjoy!</p><br />Themes: Mental Health, Therapy, Sexual Wellness</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br />Listen to a new episode here: <a href="https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod</a></p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:42:03

Love And High Fenced Streets ft Amiola

What’s the difference between love and crack? </p>Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between desire and vulnerability. Does love make bad sex feel better than it actually is? They explore it all in a heartfelt conversation about love, relationships, and everything in between.</p><br />Themes: Love, Vulnerability, Relationships</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br />Listen to a new episode here: <a href="https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod</a></p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:50:18

Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu

On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person views and expresses their sexual identity and much more.</p><br />Enjoy!</p><br />Themes: Labels, Sexual Identity, Japa/Relocation</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br />Listen to a new episode here: <a href="https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/spitorswallowpod</a></p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:54:01

Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus

In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. </p>They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienced in Nigeria being a sex educator and much more!</p><br />Enjoy!</p>Themes: Sex Education, Women’s Health, Advocacy </p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

01:06:53

Can I Take My Clothes Off? ft. Sugar Ken

Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping!</p><br />While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the industry, and the delicate dance of managing client emotions while baring it all. And yes, even with his clothes off, he's setting boundaries like a pro!</p><br />Enjoyy!</p><br />Themes: Sex Work, Dance, Societal Norms</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br />Listen to a new episode here:</p><br />Betty Godson</p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:48:41

Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles.</p><br />Enjoyy!</p><br />Themes: Spirituality , Polyamory, Eros</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br />Listen to a new episode here: <a href="https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY</a></p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:57:27

Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni

On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love with her new partner. They also discuss misconceptions about sex and love within older couples and much more </p><br />Enjoyy</p>Themes: Love, Relationships, Older Couples</p><br />Don’t forget to rate us and share!</p><br />Stay connected with us on:</p>- Instagram: @spitorswallowpod</p>- Twitter: @sospodofficial</p>- TikTok: @spitorswallowpod</p><br />Listen to a new episode here: <a href="https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://sos.podlink.to/New-Episode?fbclid=PAAaYHWcZH-TyLAA5O76PB3llmCgs50V5Oyn2xL027z9p6ExdziO18QqelsqY</a></p><br /><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

01:24:48